Breaking Agreements That Block the Promise

Living an Ephesians 3:20 Lifestyle Requires Breaking Agreements, Healing Patterns, and Walking in Authority

“Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us.” — Ephesians 3:20

We are in a window season. A season where God is releasing opportunity, access, elevation, restoration, and yes — provision and wealth.

But windows are timed, not permanent. And Scripture shows us that before God releases increase, He prepares the vessel.

Many people are praying for doors to open, while God is asking for agreements to be broken.

Agreements with fear. Agreements with trauma. Agreements with sin. Agreements with bloodline patterns. Agreements with other kingdoms.

“Whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.” — Matthew 18:18

This means heaven responds to alignment, not intention. What you tolerate on earth has permission in the spirit. What you renounce on earth loses authority.

To live an Ephesians 3:20 lifestyle, we must understand the spiritual systems we came into agreement with — and intentionally disconnect.

Agreements, Authority, and Why Things Repeat

An agreement is anything you repeatedly say yes to with:

• your body

• your thoughts

• your emotions

• your habits

• your silence

Agreements produce patterns.

“You will know them by their fruit.” — Matthew 7:16

Many believers love God deeply but are still bound because forgiveness removed guilt, not agreement.

Jesus didn’t just forgive sin — He gave authority.

“I give you authority… over all the power of the enemy.” — Luke 10:19

Authority must be used.

Spiritual Attachments That Must Be Disconnected

Each spirit below includes:

• how it operates

• how it enters

• what it produces

• why it blocks promise

Breaking them will be addressed at the end.

1. Spirit of Lust & Seduction (Porn, Fantasy, Sexual Compromise)

This spirit is not just about sex — it is about false comfort and counterfeit intimacy.

How it enters

• early exposure

• rejection or abandonment

• trauma

• loneliness

• stress coping

How it shows up

• pornography

• masturbation tied to stress

• fantasy and mental lust

• secret conversations

• emotional affairs

• craving attention or validation

What it produces

• dulled discernment

• weakened prayer life

• shame cycles

• difficulty with discipline

• broken intimacy in marriage

Why it blocks the window

Because it trains the soul to seek relief instead of righteousness, which weakens spiritual authority.

“Flee sexual immorality.” — 1 Corinthians 6:18 “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.”— Matthew 5:8

2. Jezebel Spirit (Control, Manipulation, and Religious Authority)

Jezebel is widely misunderstood. It is not just adultery. It is a spirit of control that resists God’s order and silences truth.

“You tolerate that woman Jezebel, who calls herself a prophet.” — Revelation 2:20

How it shows up personally

• emotional manipulation

• domination

• seduction for influence

• refusal to submit or repent

How it shows up in the church

• control disguised as spiritual authority

• silencing questions or discernment

• fear-based leadership

• protecting image over integrity

• intimidating prophetic voices

What it produces

• confusion

• fear

• burnout

• stagnation

Why it blocks the window

God will not elevate people still controlled by fear of man.

“God is not the author of confusion.” — 1 Corinthians 14:33

3. Delilah Assignments (Draining Relationships)

Delilah represents relationships that access your strength but weaken your purpose.

How it shows up

• distractions disguised as love

• people who normalize compromise

• emotional dependence

• repeated cycles with no fruit

What it produces

• loss of discipline

• delayed obedience

• emotional exhaustion

“Bad company corrupts good character.” — 1 Corinthians 15:33

4. Leviathan Spirit (Twisting Communication & Pride)

This spirit twists words and fuels offense.

How it shows up

• constant misunderstandings

• defensiveness

• pride

• inability to apologize

What it produces

• division

• broken relationships

• isolation

“Where pride is, there is strife.” — Proverbs 13:10

5. Python Spirit (Spiritual Suffocation)

This spirit constricts prayer and joy.

How it shows up

• heaviness during prayer

• distraction

• spiritual fatigue

• depression

What it produces

• burnout

• numbness

• withdrawal

“The Spirit helps us in our weakness.” — Romans 8:26

6. Spirit of Fear, Delay, and Procrastination

Fear often disguises itself as logic.

How it shows up

• procrastination

• perfectionism

• overthinking

• hiding gifts

What it produces

• missed opportunities

• frustration

• stagnation

“God has not given us a spirit of fear.” — 2 Timothy 1:7

7. Settling for Safety Instead of Obedience

This spirit convinces people to choose comfort over calling.

How it shows up

• staying where God said leave

• shrinking dreams

• choosing security over faith

What it produces

• resentment

• lack of fulfillment

• delayed promise

“We walk by faith, not by sight.” — 2 Corinthians 5:7

8. Spirit of Heaviness (Grief, Depression, Emotional Weight)

This spirit settles where grief is unprocessed.

How it shows up

• persistent sadness

• loss of joy

• emotional numbness

What it produces

• hopelessness

• withdrawal

• loss of vision

“A garment of praise instead of a spirit of heaviness.” — Isaiah 61:3

9. Womb Trauma & Molech (Sacrifice Under Pressure)

This spirit represents sacrifice driven by fear, pressure, or survival.

“You shall not give your children to Molech.” — Leviticus 18:21

How it shows up today

• abortion under pressure

• unresolved grief

• shame

• emotional numbness

• fear of motherhood

• self-sabotage

What it produces

• spiritual disconnect

• depression

• deep unhealed sorrow

Why it blocks the window

Unhealed womb trauma affects identity, creativity, and legacy.

“He heals the brokenhearted.” — Psalm 147:3

10. Bloodline Patterning & Generational Cycles

Some struggles are not personal — they are inherited patterns.

Common cycles

• incarceration

• chronic debt

• addiction

• abuse

• sickness

“The iniquity of the fathers…” — Exodus 20:5

“If anyone is in Christ, they are a new creation.” — 2 Corinthians 5:17

11. Soul Ties & the Single Season

Soul ties are spiritual and emotional bonds formed through intimacy.

Effects

• emotional confusion

• comparison

• repeated relationship cycles

“The two shall become one flesh.” — Genesis 2:24

Singleness is preparation, not punishment.

“Seek first the Kingdom of God.” — Matthew 6:33

HOW TO BREAK AGREEMENTS (ONE CLEAR PROCESS)

1. Repent (Turn)

Repentance closes the door.

“Repent and turn, that times of refreshing may come.” — Acts 3:19

2. Renounce (Break Agreement)

Say it out loud.

“I renounce every agreement with fear, lust, control, heaviness, trauma, and compromise.”

3. Fast (Uproot)

“This kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.” — Matthew 17:21

Fasting weakens flesh and strengthens authority.

4. Refill (Replace)

“Be filled with the Spirit.” — Ephesians 5:18

Replace old patterns with:

• prayer

• scripture

• discipline

• obedience

5. Be Patient With the Mind

Your memory and thoughts may not clear immediately.

That does not mean freedom didn’t happen.

“Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
— Romans 12:2

Thoughts are habits.
Habits take time to rewire.

Pray over mind patterning, not just behavior.

Declaration

I loose what must be loosed. I bind what must be bound. I break agreement with other kingdoms. I step into my Ephesians 3:20 window.

“As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” — Joshua 24:15

Thank You for Reading

Thank you for taking the time to read this guide.
I pray it brought you clarity, peace, and a sense of spiritual release. May it help you see what needed to be addressed, and may you feel lighter, more aligned, and more encouraged as you move forward.

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